Overheard on CNN.com: Do you stick to 40 hours' work or burn midnight oil?
Facebook COO Sheryl Sandberg admits that after dinner with her kids, she's back to checking her work e-mail.
April 16th, 2012
04:29 PM ET

Overheard on CNN.com: Do you stick to 40 hours' work or burn midnight oil?

Editor's note: This post is part of the Overheard on CNN.com series, a regular feature that examines interesting comments and thought-provoking conversations posted by the community.

Mashable's Pete Cashmore profiled Facebook COO Sheryl Sandberg, who said she works 9 to 5 hours and gives the rest of her time to her family. Many of our readers responded and said they agree and support her decision, but we also heard from a lot of folks who say workers should be prepared to slog out those long hours.

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Here are some different takes on Sandberg's work-life balance:

SuZieCoyote: "She is dead-on right. 9-5 is what the company is due. The rest belongs to family. For women AND for men."

Max Derpin: "Don't forget that people in innovative industries are mentally on the job 24/7. I know I am thinking about improving features and other pressing issues even when I am off the "clock." It's just like a hobby, I like doing it, whether at the office or not."

Randall Stevens: "Good for you Max. But those who don't want to live that way should be able to live how they want."

A few people expressed resentment at those people, particularly parents, that leave on time.

ank250562377: "I hate when working parents assume they are the only people entitled to leave work at 5 p.m. Why are childless or single workers expected to stay late? I work with a few women with small children, and boy do I pick up the slack for them. They are excused from work events because "they can't get the babysitter." They maximize every day off because kids are sick. They don't show up until 9 a.m. because of dropping kids off at school. I am single and have no children but I still would like to have a life outside of work. I think I may have a kid just to have an excuse to leave at 3:30 p.m., get maternity leave and take personal days for kid's events."

glee7106: "ank, I agree, those working parents should not leave their work to their co-workers to pick up the slack. However, don't think it's a conspiracy against single workers, because trust me, there are single workers out there who think they can get by with doing the minimum and deserve a big paycheck. You do have the right to leave early; if not, then there is an issue with your employer, and I would look for another job. Trust me, when you have kids, your priorities will change and this conversation will seem ridiculous to you! Also, you might have an issue with TMI, just tell your boss you need a day off for personal reasons, they don't need to know the details."

This is the life.

Timmer1107: "I work zero hours each day and mostly play golf, play cards with my buddies, go on frequent vacations, relax and read every day, post some ridiculous comments on CNN opinion boards and I'm just as happy as I can be for it. The previous 40 years were another story altogether, which included some 80,000 hours of unrequited toil for companies where management couldn't hit the broad side of a barn with a steam shovel."

Someone had to say it.

nicolipi: "Stop reading CNN articles and get back to work, all of ya's!"

Many of the commenters shared experiences with work efficiency.

clown99: "I worked way too many hours when I was wet behind the ears and stupidly thought that the number of hours I worked would somehow translate into promotions and wage increases. Only when I started observing other engineers did I discover that it wasn't hours. Rather, it was the boss' perception of your work. Nothing else mattered. Once I understood that, I was down to 40 hour work weeks and my pay just kept rising, and all of that with little if any real accomplishment. A real tragic statement on the state of our companies."

The eternal question applies: Do you work longer or work smarter?

TomInRochNY: "Tankeray, I disagree. I normally work a standard 40-hour week. I've been doing that for years. I've gotten some of my best kudos by doing that. It isn't how much you work, but how well you work. It's that whole 'work smarter, not harder' thing management keeps telling you. It does work."

Tankeray: "Problem is, the company sees two comparable people: One leaving at 5:30 every day and the other leaving at 7 every day. The one leaving at 7 will get the promotion first. The only way to get the next promotion is to start leaving at 7:15 and so on. If you want to leave at 5:30, you should be allowed to, but understand the perception that WILL come from that compared to the person next to you that stays late."

Another question is, where do you derive life's meaning?

fllybd5: "Fools who think they must give up their family life for a salary, regardless of the job, deserve the consequences of doing so."

drcanuck1: "Agreed. Jobs come and go, but family is (or should be) forever."

MattQu: "For me it's not about giving up my family life for a salary, but because work is what has meaning for me. I'm not old enough to have children, and when I do, I'm sure they will be what gives my life meaning, but for now, my greatest accomplishments are what I do at my job, because I'm passionate about what I do."

One commenter got a little philosophical.

dadof2girls: "I have been an ordained minister for over 20 years. I've sat alongside many people as they are getting ready to part this great Earth. Never once in all my 20 years did I ever hear anyone say, "Gee, I wish I had spent more time at the office." The opposite is true, I frequently hear regrets that they weren't there for their families more. Or worse yet, how many wish they had been more involved parents. I applaud this woman for her honesty and her principles. We can learn from this. In the end, what is more important?"

How do balance work and life? How does work affect mothers in particular? Share your opinion in the comments area below and in the latest stories on CNN.com. Or post a video comment via CNN iReport.

Compiled by the CNN.com moderation staff. Some comments edited for length or clarity.

soundoff (150 Responses)
  1. hamsta

    i saw a crane boom collapse and cut a man in half.the osha man was more worried about the whether the man was wearing his hard hat than he was about the defective(engineering mistake)bolts joining the boom sections togethor.

    April 17, 2012 at 1:54 am | Report abuse | Reply
  2. No, Barby

    The Lord does NOT seek you out. Recall the prodigal son...did his father go after him? No. His father saw him from far away and immediatly set-about making a place for him. Yes, Jesus, The Great Shepherd WILL abandon his entire flock to go save just the one lost lamb. But to thouroughly undestand how it is that Jesus can do this without losing the entire flock to the wolves in sheeps clothing, one must ditch believing in the theory that Jesus is God himself. Who watches the flock when Jesus does go after the single lost sheep? His dad. duh

    April 17, 2012 at 1:55 am | Report abuse | Reply
  3. No, Barby

    ...in order to become a lost sheep, first you must have been a sheep. A person in a close opersonal relationship with God, and a deep appreciation for what his son had done for you. If Jesus were actually God, none of this could possibly be true. Jesus praying to God would be a con job.(investigate the origins of the Trinity Doctrine. You will find that it did not originate with the God of the bible)
    I'm tired. :) gn

    April 17, 2012 at 2:02 am | Report abuse | Reply
  4. Barbed Wire

    I find your comments disturbing, and not those of a TRUE BELIEVER. I will pray for you that the LORD our GOD will forgive your blasphemy and heathen ways and will start you on your path to REPENTANCE. May GOD our LORD forgive you.

    April 17, 2012 at 2:05 am | Report abuse | Reply
  5. Barbed Wire

    Thank you for a frank look at where you have erred, No Barby. Good night.

    April 17, 2012 at 2:07 am | Report abuse | Reply
  6. hamsta

    saw a man doing donuts on a forklift.when he flipped the machind over his head was smashed by the safety cage.mr. osha wanted to know if the man was wearing his hard hat.these people are so smart they think a plastic hat is going to prevent 15000 pounds of steel from crushimg a mans head.let one of those machines role over your steel toed boots and you wont have toes.these eggheads are so intelligent.

    April 17, 2012 at 2:09 am | Report abuse | Reply
  7. No, Barby

    Ummm, God's personal name is recorded for us in his word, the bible...over 7,000 times. And get this straight, his name ISN'T 'Jesus'.

    April 17, 2012 at 2:15 am | Report abuse | Reply
    • google

      I googled it. His name is Fred.

      April 17, 2012 at 2:28 am | Report abuse |
    • I Like Fred

      Funny thing about Fred, I named my dog Fred. He is happy. And the funny thing about Fred being a dog? Dog spelled backwards is god. Sometimes Fred talks to me. He tells me to do many things. Sometimes, what he tells me to do is scary. But I don't question it, I just do it, because, afterall, dog spelled backwards is god.

      April 17, 2012 at 6:38 am | Report abuse |
  8. Barbed Wire

    He is the LORD our GOD.

    April 17, 2012 at 2:18 am | Report abuse | Reply
  9. Mary

    LMAO !!!!!!!!!!!!!
    That suites you very well
    Barbed Wire from the Pamela Anderson movie
    Wasn't she playing a S L U T Y character?
    s l u t s ARE NOT ladies

    April 17, 2012 at 6:59 am | Report abuse | Reply
  10. Mary

    It's very difficult seeing someone post under BARBED WIRE (s l u t y character) while talking about the bible.
    How dare you!!!!!

    April 17, 2012 at 7:11 am | Report abuse | Reply
  11. chrissy

    ummm yea, i remember one of those, used to come the cnn blogs after the bar. She was always cryin how nobody loved her! Anyway she used to go by the name jazzz, and then she changed it to mary and now she steals others names. You spelled it w h o r e!

    April 17, 2012 at 9:46 am | Report abuse | Reply
  12. Philip

    Bottom o' the Barrel to you ladies. (kertsee)

    April 17, 2012 at 5:44 pm | Report abuse | Reply
  13. raven

    The character in that movie was FICTIONAL...you do know that, right? And that character was a bounty hunter whos name was Barb Wire, not Barbed Wire. That movie did blow tho, I'll give you that.

    April 17, 2012 at 7:25 pm | Report abuse | Reply
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