New Yorkers celebrate same-sex marriage in pop-up wedding chapels
Pastor Mark Cutolo officiates over the marriage of Scott Baumann and Tom Corujo.
July 30th, 2011
10:41 PM ET

New Yorkers celebrate same-sex marriage in pop-up wedding chapels

Twenty-four gay and lesbian couples were wed Saturday under two “pop-up” chapels designed to celebrate the first full weekend of same-sex marriage in New York.

With every “I do,” jubilant whoops and cheers burst from the crowd, a mix of friends, family and passers-by.

The weddings, although held adjacent to the commotion of New York City’s Columbus Circle, felt comfortably ensconced in Central Park. The event’s organizers reported no protests or disturbances throughout the day.

The two chapels, named KISS and ICRAVE, were chosen from more than 50 entries after a 10-day design competition. KISS, designed by architect Guy Zucker, consisted of two interlocking, helix-shaped wood frames.

Carley Roney, co-founder of the marriage service The Knot, which co-sponsored the event, said KISS was constructed this way because, as with a marriage, “the two pieces can’t stand on their own. They need each other to stand up.”

Meanwhile, ICRAVE, designed by architect Lionel Ohayon, covered the betrothed with an array of rainbow-colored ribbon bands dangling from a makeshift roof. The rainbow colors were chosen to reflect gay pride, Roney said.

While the pop-up chapels will be demolished after the event, the newlyweds said there was nothing ephemeral about the vows taken beneath them.

“I promise to always help you find your keys; I promise to give you all the credit when people compliment me in your clothes... I promise to always have your back,” Katrina Olson said to her new wife, Tiffany Hopkins. “The only thing I can’t promise you is my heart, ’cause you stole it so many years ago.”

Afterwards, a friend of the couple’s played The Beatles’ “When I’m Sixty-Four,” inviting a sing-along from the street crowd and many of the event’s volunteers.

Like the ceremony for Hopkins and Olson, the services throughout the day focused far more on the relationships than the novelty, or historical significance, of a same-sex marriage.

Shari Berkowitz, one of the wedding’s officiants, said this marked a change from some of the same-sex commitment ceremonies she oversaw 15 years ago, which were often marked with tension. On Saturday, Berkowitz officiated the wedding of Gabrielle Harmon and Jacqueline Cabrera.

“Now, you will feel no rain, for each of you will be shelter to the other,” she said at the ceremony.

The weather Saturday - sunny without a cloud in the sky - seemed to make this assurance unnecessary.

Additionally, the day’s attendees said their thoughts were not clouded by the lawsuit, filed this Monday by the conservative group New Yorkers for Constitutional Freedom, challenging the legality of the same-sex marriage law.

“I think it’s going to die,” Jen Frankel said of the lawsuit before she married Jessica Schoen.

Bex Schwartz, one of the event’s organizers, added, “I’m an eternal optimist; I hope the right way will win out... people realize that we can’t say some people are better than others.”

Although the Rev. Jason McGuire, NYCEF’s executive director, has questioned the impact of same-sex marriage on religious institutions, the wedding ceremonies Saturday seemed to embrace the convergence of religious rites and homosexuality.

For instance, during the wedding of Tom Carujo and Scott Baumann, a gay couple of nearly 30 years, Pastor Mark Cutolo discussed the significance of the rainbow in the Bible.

After the flood, “the eternal God gave Noah the rainbow as a promise he would never destroy the earth again,” Cutolo said.

Now, rainbows also serve as a powerful symbol of gay rights and diversity, he said, and the two are complementary, not contradictory.

“So, the rainbow is a sign of hopefulness, of life,” Cutolo said, looking up at the effervescent ICRAVE. “A sign that we feel blessed by God.”

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  1. fernace

    Sounds really cool & something tells me if a straight couple decided to marry in one of these chaples, they would be more than welcome!!

    July 31, 2011 at 12:36 am | Report abuse |
  2. Jeff Frank ( R - OHIO )

    Hmmm. Pop up wedding chapels? I was expecting something more like spring-loaded cardbord walls. Step on the pedal...whoa...little pop up entrance...little pop up walls...little pop up pulpit...and of course the little pop up preacher.

    July 31, 2011 at 1:09 am | Report abuse |
  3. FBMarky

    Cool. I just wish I had a BF so I could get married. Anybody wanna go on a date?

    July 31, 2011 at 2:39 am | Report abuse |
  4. jj

    joey where are ya??? its gay time lol

    July 31, 2011 at 3:30 am | Report abuse |
  5. Joey Isotta-Fraschini

    @ jj:
    I'm right here, jj.
    Tall and proud. Free, too.
    Dam-n right on I fought for gay marriage!
    Same way I fought for equal rights for African-Americans before they got them–and now African-American preachers are still carrying on to keep gays down ("something you could have been put in JAIL for"), right along with white preachers.
    I'm white. My (white) wife and I are going to our first gay (two men) wedding this Thursday. With Tiffany clock.
    By the way, my wife votes. That's also legal now, you know.
    Down with the Democratic Party's DOMA! (Thank you for that, Bill Clinton. Any ci-gars lately?)
    I'm still a Republican, too.
    I love guys who think for themselves.

    July 31, 2011 at 4:07 am | Report abuse |
  6. Joey Isotta-Fraschini

    PS, jj:
    It won't matter to me if they junk Social Security altogether.
    I probably never will take it.
    I will, however–not shall–go to the next gay wedding that's comes along in my life.

    July 31, 2011 at 4:13 am | Report abuse |
    • John

      ...Why not?

      July 31, 2011 at 1:48 pm | Report abuse |
  7. Joey Isotta-Fraschini

    PS, jj:
    It won't matter to me if they junk Social Security altogether.
    I probably never will take it.
    I will, however–not shall–go to the next gay wedding that comes along in my life.

    July 31, 2011 at 4:13 am | Report abuse |
  8. II

    HEY GUYS HOW'S IT HANGING ?

    July 31, 2011 at 4:16 am | Report abuse |
  9. RUFFNUTT

    they should get on the band wagon and put have some military recuitment pop-up tents next to them... it's a win win situation...

    July 31, 2011 at 8:28 am | Report abuse |
  10. bi-curious

    Was I born this way?

    July 31, 2011 at 8:30 am | Report abuse |
    • RUFFNUTT

      cause your parents did something to you when you were little...

      July 31, 2011 at 8:36 am | Report abuse |
  11. thinking of stealing

    We both were evidently.

    July 31, 2011 at 8:33 am | Report abuse |
  12. RUFFNUTT

    i wonder what type of cake they have at gay guys marrages? chocolate?

    July 31, 2011 at 8:40 am | Report abuse |
  13. paul

    Yea! Congratulations cousin Scott and Tom! Hugs from all your Ash cousins! Yea!

    July 31, 2011 at 9:03 am | Report abuse |
  14. SATAN

    put Tom Carujo and Scott Baumann on the guest list...

    July 31, 2011 at 9:07 am | Report abuse |
    • GOD (Not really, but for the sake of role playing)

      You're going to be quite lonely when you get your own little cage.

      July 31, 2011 at 9:51 am | Report abuse |
    • jesus

      actually my dad says "the basement is going to be filled to capacity , we might need to expand "

      July 31, 2011 at 10:27 am | Report abuse |
  15. Big Gay Al

    It'th a thelabration peopull, jutht be happy for them. Live and let die.

    July 31, 2011 at 10:38 am | Report abuse |
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