May 14th, 2012
02:14 PM ET

From first black president to 'first gay president'?

As if becoming the first black president wasn't momentous enough, Barack Obama has just been handed a new title: "First gay president."

A Newsweek magazine cover bestowed that distinction on Obama this week with a picture of the president and a rainbow halo. If you view that as a naked attempt to grab your attention, capitalize on the moment and have you pick up a newsmagazine, you might be right.

But that illustration - along with a New Yorker cover showing the columns of the White House lit up in rainbow colors - certainly shows how the president’s public support of same-sex marriage has pushed the issue back into the spotlight.

The magazines’ choices also speak to the broad cultural impact of Obama's announcement and pose questions about whether this moment may become a lasting part of his legacy.

That's not to say the president's announcement is necessarily a watershed moment. It earned him kudos and criticism despite the fact that he left the legal standing of same-sex marriage in the hands of the states and made no policy changes.

The issue also is far from resolved in the African-American community, and some conservatives say Obama's announcement comes at a political cost.'s John Blake writes that some suggest the black church may punish Obama for announcing his support for same-sex marriage.

As millions went to church this weekend after the president's announcement, clergy across the country offered their opinions, with the words of black pastors - a key base of support for Obama in 2008 - carrying special weight in a presidential election year. But black pastors were hardly monolithic in addressing Obama's remarks.

Blake points out that a backlash by some African-American pastors, a campaign worry following the announcement, can be seen as historical irony. Black church leaders arguing against same-sex marriage are making some of the same arguments that supporters of slavery made in the 18th and 19th centuries, some historians say. Both groups adopted a literal reading of the Bible to justify withholding basic rights from a particular group.

Patrick R. Tull, a Lumberton, New Jersey, iReporter and Obama supporter, said that he believes marriage is between a man and a woman and that the president has alienated a big section of his supporters in the black community who have not "evolved" as the president has.

"The fact is many Americans, which includes Democrats, have not 'evolved' on the issue of same-sex marriage," Tull said. "Mr. President, you should have stood your ground and said, that you believe marriage is between a man and a woman, but you are against discrimination of any kind. Individual states should decide what's best for their state. It is a free country and people are free to love whomever they want and that's OK with me, but I believe that marriage is between one man and one woman."

Vera Richardson, also an Obama supporter, said the president’s stance on same-sex marriage will be his undoing for re-election.

“I am confused, I cannot vote for (Mitt) Romney, and I know Obama needs our vote, but he has caused anxiety in the black community," she said in an iReport.

But for Andrew Sullivan, the writer of the Newsweek article and also a gay man, Obama's announcement meant everything for the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community.

"For gay Americans and their families, the emotional darkness of Tuesday night became a canvas on which Obama could paint a widening dawn," Sullivan writes. "But I didn’t expect it. Like many others, I braced myself for disappointment. And yet when I watched the interview, the tears came flooding down. ...

"I was utterly unprepared for how psychologically transformative the moment would be. To have the president of the United States affirm my humanity - and the humanity of all gay Americans - was, unexpectedly, a watershed. He shifted the mainstream in one interview. And last week, a range of Democratic leaders - from Harry Reid to Steny Hoyer - backed the president, who moved an entire party behind a position that only a few years ago was regarded as simply preposterous."

And for one Republican, the announcement swayed him toward supporting Obama.

“I'm very happy with Obama's decision because at the end of the business day I can see my partner and feel hopeful,” said iReporter David A. Seaman of Lansford, Pennsylvania. “I never would have thought he would do something like this. Just this decision alone made me swing way left to vote.”

While that analysis may be true for some, others wondered if the Newsweek cover went too far in enshrining the moment and its significance.

It's not entirely unprecedented to bestow such a title to a sitting president. In the '90s, Bill Clinton was dubbed America's first black president.

"African-American men seemed to understand it right away," Toni Morrison wrote in The New Yorker in 1998 about the Monica Lewinsky scandal that rocked Washington. "Years ago, in the middle of the Whitewater investigation, one heard the first murmurs: white skin notwithstanding, this is our first black President. Blacker than any actual black person who could ever be elected in our children’s lifetime. After all, Clinton displays almost every trope of blackness: single-parent household, born poor, working-class, saxophone-playing, McDonald’s-and-junk-food-loving boy from Arkansas."

And in many ways, the shared connections or perceived ones that earned Clinton that title, mockingly or not, is part of why Sullivan has bestowed "First Gay President" upon Obama.

Sullivan writes that a black president who likely had to go through a period of self-discovery growing up as well as struggle for equality shared in some way the plight of gay Americans. As Obama eventually shattered the barrier of office to the "White" House, his announcement will allow gay Americans to shatter the stereotypes placed on them, Sullivan argues.

“Barack Obama had to come out of a different closet. He had to discover his black identity and then reconcile it with his white family, just as gays discover their homosexual identity and then have to reconcile it with their heterosexual family," he writes. "The America he grew up in had no space for a boy like him: black yet enveloped by loving whiteness, estranged from a father he longed for (another common gay experience), hurtling between being a Barry and a Barack, needing an American racial identity as he grew older but chafing also against it and over-embracing it at times.”

This week's column in The New Yorker, headlined "Wedding Bells," argues that Obama's announcement is on par with the importance of abolishing laws against interracial marriage in the 1960s.

Writer Margaret Talbot points to the Supreme Court's 1967 decision in Loving v. Virginia that struck down anti-miscegenation laws, saying the acceptance of same-sex marriage is inevitable.

"One day, not long from now, it will be hard to remember what worried people so much about gay and lesbian couples committing themselves to marriage," Talbot writes in the New Yorker.

"And, eventually, the Court will do the right thing on same-sex marriage, just as the President did last week. As in the Loving decision, the Court will reaffirm that the 'freedom to marry has long been recognized as one of the vital personal rights essential to the orderly pursuit of happiness by free men.' And it will finally uphold that freedom for gay and lesbian Americans."

soundoff (1,368 Responses)
  1. Recovering Republican

    Amazing how those who claim to love and want to be like Christ, act more and more like Hitler every day. News Flash; Christ = Love, GOP = Hate. Stop mixing the two up. Christ would not be a Republican, he does not hate enough to qualify.

    May 14, 2012 at 5:19 pm | Report abuse |
  2. Thomas Covenant

    Anyone who needs the approval of a politician for their lifestyle has deep problems. Nobody I know cares if gays marry or not. Just MOVE ON!. It isn't that big of a deal but if you want to divide the world into those who support marriage between a man and woman and those who do not. Go ahead. Just don't be surprised at the result.

    May 14, 2012 at 5:20 pm | Report abuse |
  3. PK

    Oh come on! Can't we get to the core values of these two candidates and stop with the BS?!

    May 14, 2012 at 5:20 pm | Report abuse |
  4. halfbakedlunatic

    Why is this even an issue? People should be able to marry whomever they dang well please.

    May 14, 2012 at 5:20 pm | Report abuse |
  5. TDiddy

    yep, obama is very very gay!

    May 14, 2012 at 5:20 pm | Report abuse |
  6. Faye

    Is Obama gay? LOLOL!!!

    I'm sorry, this is just too easy.

    May 14, 2012 at 5:21 pm | Report abuse |
  7. moe

    I like how republicans want to regulate the average citizens personal life which doesn't effect other people(birth control,gay marriage, etc.) but don't want to regulate wall street who's actions do effect others, just imagine how much bigger of a loss JPmorgan could have been without regulations...talking about backwards thinking

    May 14, 2012 at 5:21 pm | Report abuse |
  8. geelolickers

    "...withholding basic rights from a particular group" Gay people already have the right to marry, as marriage is defined. It is certainly not illegal for a gay man to marry a woman, or a gay woman to marry a man. Now, whether or not they choose to do so is their choice.

    May 14, 2012 at 5:22 pm | Report abuse |
    • Bush's Brain

      Dumb post.

      May 14, 2012 at 5:28 pm | Report abuse |
    • Observer


      May 14, 2012 at 5:31 pm | Report abuse |
  9. RSE

    When I was a young boy, I realized very early that I had the potential to have an emotional attraction to any person, male, female, or those who identify as other. I happened to fall in love with a woman and have an incredible married life with her. Had I fallen in love with a man and wished to enter into a committed marriage with him, I would want that right. If my wife were to fall ill, I can make decisions on her behalf, but not if I were with a man. If she were to perish, I would have certain rights to make decisions on property, children, etc., whereas that wouldnt be the case if I were not in a hetero relationship. There are far too many medical, social, legal, state and federal rights attached to marriage, it is folly to not allow SSM. I did not ask to be born this way, but I was, and as a citizen of the U.S. willing to enter into a committed adult relationship, I deserve to have the same protections as hetero married couples. Love is love, and I know some day we will all see that. I commend the President for seeing that as well and taking a step on behalf of loving couples everywhere.

    May 14, 2012 at 5:22 pm | Report abuse |
  10. visionarey

    Yea, let's talk about this instead of what really matters in the country! Good job trying to cover your four year failure by using smoke and mirrors and publicity/voter stunts! Luckily, we are not fooled! You will not distract the voters from what really counts today, no matter how much you and the silly, biased, nose poking media try to hide the important issues!

    May 14, 2012 at 5:23 pm | Report abuse |
    • Pip

      Er... You conservative loons bought it up first. Frankly I'd rather talk about the economy as a primary issue.

      May 14, 2012 at 5:28 pm | Report abuse |
    • Observer


      It was Republicans who forced the issue in NC. Anything to detract from the failures of the Bush administration that are being fixed by President Obama.

      May 14, 2012 at 5:33 pm | Report abuse |
  11. marineace

    The market tanked again today and this is what we're talking about? The economy remains the issue.

    May 14, 2012 at 5:23 pm | Report abuse |
  12. Steve Williams

    Ok, so Obama is gay and has small hands soooooooo....

    May 14, 2012 at 5:23 pm | Report abuse |
  13. KarinCP

    Cruel what people say about the President – he may not be the best – but he is the U S President, and he can Campaign better than any other we have had – He has raised Billions now two terms worth, and knows what issues to read speeches about so he wins the Vote – – Let's give him a Hoot !

    May 14, 2012 at 5:23 pm | Report abuse |
    • maryla

      Agree! And this people are Americans – what a shame,

      May 14, 2012 at 5:29 pm | Report abuse |
  14. Scott

    Now we will see how far we have come.

    May 14, 2012 at 5:23 pm | Report abuse |
  15. Mcshannon

    NC Amendment 1 would not have passed without ads payed for by t-a-x exempt religious organization of F. Graham. It grieves me and it grieves God that he did this.

    May 14, 2012 at 5:24 pm | Report abuse |
    • Scott

      It grieves God that he did this? How easily you disconnect the idea from the people that follow the idea. Maybe you should explain how it wasn't God that did it.

      May 14, 2012 at 5:26 pm | Report abuse |
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