December 16th, 2012
10:27 PM ET

'These tragedies must end, and to end them we must change'

  • President heads list of dignitaries and local clergy members offering comfort to the people of Newtown, Connecticut
  • 20 children, six adults and the shooter are dead after shooting at Sandy Hook Elementary School on Friday morning
  • Police: Nancy Lanza, mother of gunman, died from multiple gunshot wounds
  • Gunman Adam Lanza had assault rifle magazines that held 30 bullets each, police said
  • Victims' names released Saturday; all of the slain children were either 6 or 7 years old
  • Complete coverage: Connecticut school shooting
  • Soledad O'Brien will be live from Newtown, Connecticut, with advice and insight from Deepak Chopra and from people who have been through other shootings. Watch Starting Point, live at 6 a.m. ET Monday.

[Update 10:27 p.m. ET] Christina Hassinger, 30, the daughter of slain Sandy Hook Elementary Principal Dawn Hochsprung, sent out this tweet after meeting with President Obama before the prayer vigil.


[Updated 9:39 p.m.] A long silence followed the conclusion of President Obama's remarks before the audience began to applaud. The president walked off the stage to return to the floor, but a woman stopped him, turned him around and sent him back up the stairs to the stage. He stopped and waved briefly to the still-applauding crowd before exiting backstage.

The Rev. Bob Weiss, pastor of Newtown's St. Rose of Lima Roman Catholic Church, then offered a prayer for the community's resilience in the times to come.

The Rev. Rob Morris, vicar of King Lutheran Church, gave a benediction before asking the audience to remain in the auditorium, comforting one another, at least until word came that the president had safely exited the school campus.

Read the full text of Obama's speech here.

[Updated at 9:13 p.m. ET] The president recalled a saying that having children is "like walking around with your heart outside your body" before pausing a moment to wipe a tear from his left eye.

"This job of keeping our children safe and teaching them well is something we can only do together," he told the hushed audience. "This is our first task: taking care of our children. It's our first job. If we don't get that right, we don't get anything right."

He then asked whether "we as a nation" are meeting that obligation.

"The answer is no, and we will have to change," he said.

Obama said this was the fourth mass shooting during his presidency, and there were countless other acts of gun violence on a smaller scale.

"We can't tolerate this anymore," he said. "These tragedies must end, and to end them we must change."

[Updated at 9:02 p.m. ET] Saying "we can't accept events like this as routine," President Barack Obama said Sunday he'll use whatever power he has to prevent more tragedies like what happened Friday in Newtown, Connecticut. "Surely we can do better than this," the president said.

[Updated at 8:52 p.m. ET] President Barack Obama is speaking to the crowd, which is remaining almost completely silent.

"We gather here in memory of 20 beautiful children and six remarkable adults," he said. "... I come to offer the love and prayers of a nation."

He assured the people of Newtown that the entire nation felt the loss.

"Our world too has been torn apart. All across this land of ours we have wept with you. We have pulled our children tight. ... Newtown, you are not alone."

[Updated at 8:37 p.m. ET] Connecticut Gov. Dannel Malloy spoke briefly, saying "We will get better," before introducing President Barack Obama.

[Updated at 8:30 p.m. ET] Newtown First Selectwoman Patricia Llodra said Friday's mass murder was "a defining moment," but it would not itself define Newtown. "We are defined by acts of courage, by love and by our continuing love for our children and families," she said.

[Updated at 8:25 p.m. ET] John Woodall, leader of the local Baha'i community, described "a burning grief" that accompanies the loss of a child, a loss that is "beyond the depth of human endurance." However, he said the sacred scripture of the Baha'i faith offers this admonishment: "Be thou not disconsolate. Do not languish. Do not sigh and weep. For agitatation and mourning affect the soul - the divine soul in the eternal realm."

Leo McIlrath, ecumenical chaplain of the Lutheran Home of Southbury, Connecticut, offered a prayer for the counselors, clergy and caregivers who are trying to comfort the bereaved.

[Updated at 8:16 p.m. ET] A young boy named Jason Graves sang a Muslim chant before Muadh Bhavnagarwala with Newtown's  Al Hedaya Islamic Center offered a one-minute homily. "Verily, with every difficulty there is ease," Bhavnagarwala said, quoting from the Quran in a quavering voice.

Jane Sibley, minister of visitation and spiritual growth, Newtown United Methodist Church, offered a prayer for first responders.

[Updated at 7:58 p.m. ET] Rabbi Shaul Praver, rabbi of Congregation Adathi in Newtown, sang the traditional Hebrew memorial prayer. The Rev. Mel Kawakami, senior minister of Newtown United Methodist Church, stood by his side, wearing a white surplice embroidered with colorful butterflies.

"There is no death, just transformation. May they rest in peace," Praver said.

Kawakami offered a prayer for the dead and the grieving, "for we are all a family as children of God," he said. "We embrace the grieving as our own. Bring us together in peace and amity."

[Updated at 7:49 p.m. ET] President Obama has entered the auditorium to brief, polite applause and quickly taken a seat on the main floor. The Rev. Matt Crebbin, senior minister of the Newtown Congregational Church, is opening the prayer vigil with welcoming remarks.

[Updated at 7:30 p.m. ET] Attendees at the prayer vigil rose to give first responders - paramedics, police officers, firefighters and others - a long standing ovation when they entered the auditorium.

[Updated at 7:07 p.m. ET] The start of the interfaith prayer vigil is delayed as President Obama continues to meet with first responders and families of victims behind closed doors. Sources at Newtown High School say 900 people are in the auditorium for the service, with 1,300 others in the gymnasium overflow.

[Updated at 6:15 p.m. ET] Connecticut's retiring U.S. Sen. Joe Lieberman, Sen. Richard Blumenthal, and Sen.-elect Christopher Murphy are circulating through the Newtown High School Auditorium and speaking with townsfolk assembling there for this evening's prayer vigil.

[Updated at 5:47 p.m. ET] President Barack Obama is meeting with the families of victims and with first responders before this evening's prayer vigil at Newtown High School.

[Updated at 4:03 p.m. ET] President Barack Obama has just landed in Connecticut where he will meet with family members and first responders.  Obama will then attend an interfaith vigil in Newtown, Connecticut.

[Updated at 3:47 p.m. ET] Adam Lanza was identified for the first time by Connecticut State Police as the gunman in Friday's shooting at Sandy Hook Elementary School.

Lt. J. Paul Vance said that Lanza died as a result of suicide using a handgun. Vance added that Lanza's mother, Nancy Lanza, died as a result of "multiple gunshot wounds" in her home.

Vance also told reporters that Adam Lanza used the Bushmaster AR-15 "assault-type weapon" most of the time at the school.

Lanza was armed with magazines that held 30 bullets each, according to Vance. He added that there were hundreds of bullets for the other weapons as well.

Vance told reporters that an additional weapon, a shotgun, was recovered from a vehicle Lanza parked outside of the school. The gunman also had a Glock 10mm and a Sig Sauer 9mm, multiple magazines and additional ammunition.

[Updated at 2:43 p.m. ET] Six-year-old Jessica Rekos was hoping to get cowgirl boots and a cowgirl hat for Christmas. Now her family is left mourning the loss of her young life.

Jessica's family sent us in a photo and statement that they wanted us to share with the world about her:

"Jessica loved everything about horses. She devoted her free time to watching horse movies, reading horse books, drawing horses, and writing stories about horses. We had promised her she could have her very own horse when she turned 10. She asked Santa for new cowgirl boots and a cowgirl hat. She was a creative, beautiful little girl who loved playing with her little brothers, Travis and Shane. She spent time writing in her journals, making up stories, and doing "research" on orca whales – one of her passions after seeing the movie Free Willy last year. She said her dream was to see a real orca. Thankfully her dream was realized in October when she went to SeaWorld.

Jessica was our first born. She started our family, and she was our rock. She had an answer for everything, she didn't miss a trick, and she outsmarted us every time. We called her our little CEO for the way she carefully thought out and planned everything. We can not imagine our life without her. We are mourning her loss, sharing our beautiful memories we have of her, and trying to help her brother Travis understand why he can't play with his best friend. We are devastated, and our hearts are with the other families who are grieving as we are."

You can read more about the rest of the victims in our interactive here, which will be updated as we get more photos and statements from family members.

[Updated at 2:13 p.m. ET] Lee Shull doesn’t want to feel helpless anymore.

That's why as a parent of a child at Sandy Hook Elementary school he gathered other Newtown, Connecticut, residents together on Sunday for a meeting to try to figure out what happened and how they can ensure it doesn't happen again.

The group was seeking to move forward a conversation about gun laws, mental health and the moral fabric of our country in the wake of another deadly shooting.

"We’re trying to get the word out to this country that we thought this was a safe community," Shull said. "This can happen anywhere. We need to start here and learn from this event."

Shull said his family is feeling the impact of the shooting personally. While he’s never met the gunman, his daughter was in a classroom where children were gunned down. Three other girls who shared a dance studio with his daughter are now dead.

[Updated at 1:31 p.m. ET] We've just learned that officials have given the "all-clear" at the St. Rose of Lima Roman Catholic Church in Newtown, Connecticut. The church had been evacuated due to an unspecified threat.

[Updated at 1:27 p.m. ET]  Authorities evacuated a Catholic church in Newtown, Connecticut, Sunday. It was unclear why the St. Rose of Lima Roman Catholic Church had been evacuated.

Witnesses said authorities told them to leave the church premises.  A column of armed police officers walked across the church property and entered a building next to the church's parking lot.

The church is less than two miles from Sandy Hook Elementary School.

[Updated at 1:03 p.m. ET] Lillian Bittman, a former chairwoman of the Newtown Board of Education, struggled to speak about the victims killed at Sandy Hook Elementary school.

She knew some of them directly, including Principal Dawn Lafferty Hochsprung, who she helped appoint.

“Everyone just feels violated,” she said of the town and the school she had been involved with for over 15 years. "It's unbelievable that this could happen to a little school that had so much joy in it."

Bittman said the school had done everything they thought they could to protect the children. And she hopes that out of tragedy, the country can find a way to move forward in a meaningful way.

"I need the country and the world to understand that out of this we have to bring good. This was an idyllic setting for children and now children, young children, have died," she told CNN's Don Lemon. "When Columbine happened, our school put in a buzzer system. But this keeps happening."

Bittman said that the families of those who were murdered are understandably "a mess" right now. She feels the same. The question now, she said, is whether we can put aside our differences as a country on mental health and gun control issues to make sure something as tragic as this doesn't happen again.

"We as a country have to use this to come together and look at all the solutions. What can the world do? Love each other and work together," she said. "Figure this out so no more six-year-olds die or have to watch their teacher die in their classroom."

[Updated at 12:12 p.m. ET] We are learning more details about the victims of the Sandy Hook Elementary School shooting.

Here's what the family of Olivia Rose Engel, 6, wanted to share about her:

"Olivia Rose Engel was a precocious and completely endearing six-year old. She loved school, and was very good at math and reading. She was creative, loved craft projects and art class, and loved participating in as many sports and activities as her mom Shannon could get her to- from tennis to swimming, ballet to soccer, Daisy Girl Scouts to musical theater, and her church’s CCD program, nothing was off limits for little girl who’s favorite colors were pink and purple. Olivia was always keen to take a spin on the lake and Sound on her dad or grandpa’s Whaler. She was a patient big sister to three-year old Brayden, lead Grace each evening at the dinner table, and was a six-year old with a lot to look forward to."

To learn more about the victims, please look at our interactive, which will be updated as we get more information.

[Updated at 12:12 p.m. ET] U.S. Sen. Richard Blumenthal said he has been touched by the "strength and resilience' of the community of Newtown in the wake of the school shooting.

"I don’t think I will ever forget the cries of grief and pain that I saw at that firehouse," Blumenthal, a Democrat representing Connecticut said, referring to the area where families gathered to learn if their loved ones were alive or dead.

[Updated at 12:02 p.m. ET] Authorities still have many witnesses, including children, that they will interview in the investigation of a Connecticut elementary school shooting, Connecticut State Police Lt. Paul Vance told reporters Sunday.

"Our people are talking with everybody slowly but surely, but methodically, too," he said. "This is something where people's hearts are broken, as we all well know. And we have to be sensitive."

[Updated at 11:54 a.m. ET] Authorities investigating the Connecticut elementary school shooting are analyzing evidence they've collected, including firearms, Connecticut State Police Lt. Paul Vance told reporters Sunday.

"We are tracing them historically to all the way back on the workbench when they were being assembled," he said.

[Updated at 11:50 a.m. ET] Inaccurate information about the Connecticut elementary school shooting is spreading on social media, and authorities could prosecute those responsible, Connecticut State Police Lt. Paul Vance told reporters Sunday.

Connecticut State Police Lt. Paul Vance addresses reporters on Sunday morning.

"Misinformation is being posted on social media sites," he said. "There has been misinformation from people posing as the shooter in this case, posing using other IDs. Mimicking this crime and crime scene and criminal activity that took place in this community. There's been some things in somewhat of a threatening manner. ... These issues are crimes. They will be investigated. ... Prosecution will take place when people who are perpetrating this information are identified."

[Updated at 11:47 a.m. ET] Democratic Sen. Dianne Feinstein of California said Sunday the president will soon have legislation "to lead on" in the gun control debate, announcing she will introduce a bill next month in the Senate to place a ban on assault weapons.

"We'll be prepared to go, and I hope the nation will really help," Feinstein said on NBC's "Meet the Press."

The senator said she'll introduce the bill when Congress reconvenes in January and the same legislation will also be proposed in the House of Representatives.

"We're crafting this one. It's being done with care. It'll be ready on the first day," she said, adding that she'll soon announce the House authors.

"It will ban the sale, the transfer, the importation, and the possession. Not retroactively, but prospectively. It will ban the same for big clips, drums or strips of more than 10 bullets," she said. "There will be a bill."

[Updated at 9:59 a.m. ET] The gunman used his weapon to force his way into the building, the state's governor told CNN Sunday.

"He penetrated the building by literally shooting an entrance into the building. That's what an assault weapon can do for you," Gov. Dan Malloy told CNN's Candy Crowley.

Gunman described as quiet, withdrawn

Malloy also said he was the one who broke the news to families that their loved ones had died at the school.

"It's a very difficult thing to do," he said. "The parents had been gathered for a number of hours, clinging to hope. ...And you can never be prepared for that, to tell 18-20 folks, or actually families, that their loved one would not be returning to them that day or in the future."

The Connecticut governor also discussed wanting tougher federal laws.

[Updated at 7:00 a.m. ET] Here's a quick look at the latest updates in the Connecticut elementary school shooting:

Relatives of the victims will meet with President Barack Obama on Sunday when the president visits.

All the victims died from gunshot wounds and were struck multiple times, said H. Wayne Carver II, Connecticut's chief medical examiner. Their deaths were classified as homicides.

All 20 of the slain children were either 6 or 7 years old.

Investigators have been combing "every crack and crevice" of the school and have found some "very good evidence" there and at suspect Adam Lanza's home, where his mother Nancy was killed.

The deadly shooting that shattered this quiet New England town also reignited the ongoing debate about gun laws in America.

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  1. LogM

    1. The woman with three or four guns couldn't protect herself. What does that say about gun for self defense?
    2. Are we all safe if we are all carrying guns all the time?

    December 16, 2012 at 2:43 pm | Report abuse |
    • Dave

      No one is assured safety. Even if given the opportunity, do you think the mother could stop her own child? This is a tragedy, but it is a mental health tragedy, nothing more, nothing less, just with a lot of collateral damage.

      December 16, 2012 at 2:48 pm | Report abuse |
  2. eclairer

    Do you acknowledge the 2nd amendment has a downside?
    Do you acknowledge we have a problem?
    Are you aware of the dramatically lower homicide rates in other Western nations?
    If not, you are not objective. You are likely a gun enthusiast.
    It’s too late to eradicate guns from our society. I have one myself.
    But it’s not too late to talk about mitigating gun violence SOMEHOW.
    All your hollow assurances that “it’s the person not the weapon” won’t ensure my child makes it home alive tomorrow.
    Stop defending your rights and help us DO something.
    Oh, and rounding up all the crazies and potential mass killers is hardly a practical solution!

    December 16, 2012 at 2:44 pm | Report abuse |
  3. Wendy

    I don't know why it is so important to find a Psych or Mental diagnosis for this killer this is who he is he is a cold blooded killer. It seems like a Psych diagnosis is just an excuse to make it right. This isn't right. He is evil and a Monster. Maybe his Mother has a passion for the wrong thing. I never met a Mother that had a gun let alone having a passion for them. What is that all about ?

    December 16, 2012 at 2:44 pm | Report abuse |

    Many White males seems to be facing a demon from hell and needs to be cast out right now!! Stop calling demons mentally ill people and see it for what it is. They are being tormented by these demons and need help.........God have mercy on us.

    December 16, 2012 at 2:46 pm | Report abuse |
  5. Kevin

    There's some pretty substandard writing in the 2:31PM update. I understand the constant pressure to generate fresh content, but certain standards of grammar and editing should be upheld despite the rush to constantly provide new information.

    December 16, 2012 at 2:49 pm | Report abuse |
    • Glh1

      20 kids are dead and you're here to play grammar critic?

      By the way, there is no 2:31 pm update. There IS a 2:13 update. I'm sure you just made a simple typo, and it's really no big dead, but you can surely see how errors can happen now, can't you?

      December 16, 2012 at 3:03 pm | Report abuse |
  6. dark gable

    What is really sad about this tragedy is the media coverage. Have you looked at the photos of the emergency response that day? It seemed as if there was an infantry responding to this situation with their guns drawn like they were praying to get into some type of combat or gun battle. The media is in a feeding frenzy, there is only so much of this to be covered. Is the media going to tell us something that makes us say " oh well if that was the reason i can kind of understand why he did it"? Local media coverage understandable but respect the privacy of these people in this time of mourning.

    December 16, 2012 at 2:49 pm | Report abuse |
  7. Dr. A. Cannara

    Oops: Did we feel "violated" after Columbine? That was 181 mass shootings ago, remember?

    December 16, 2012 at 2:50 pm | Report abuse |
  8. Allan

    Our President should impose tight regulation about gun control. Perhaps, gun owners should have quarterly mandatory safety regulation and training or increase liability insurance of owning a gun. Safety deposit and locks at home, psychological test by a licensed clinician and intensive background check must be a requirement. Parents with assault weapons at home for whatever reasons of having this, must observe meticulous safeguarding measures for others cannot access this weapon easily . Also, they should be aware of what their child’s playing, video games like guns with violence may not be appropriate for some kids especially with issues.

    December 16, 2012 at 2:50 pm | Report abuse |
    • Nate


      December 16, 2012 at 3:12 pm | Report abuse |
  9. B

    May I humbly propose we reinforce schools with bulletproof glass, metal detectors, buzzer systems, panic buttons and if financially possible armed security or law enforcement. The cost is worth the protection. I'll use my tax money for that. Not all the other allocations it currently goes for. Also. While I strongly support gun ownership as self protection. I cannot continue to rationalize the high capacity magazines for handguns or long guns. There is no hunting or practical need for these and they simply allow unstable individuals to easy a time killing masses of people. We must ban these at least. I also feel it would be helpful to move to very strong prison penalties for families and others who know of guns available to unstable individuals but do not report this. WE have to force ourselves to be more responsible. We have become to self absorbed, isolated and irresponsible as a society.

    December 16, 2012 at 2:50 pm | Report abuse |
    • Tim

      These are the measures of common sense. They are overdue. The congressman and president have been doing nothing except caring their own job (get re-elected). They have the blood of children in hand when they do not take all the action to protect the society. It is a shame of USA. North Korea does even better to protect their school children from being murdered. Shame of America. Shame! Stop lecturing how other nations to manage themself. North Korea, Iran and Seria do not have such insane event. 911 killed 3000 Americas. But the gun violance killled 9000 American per year. Who is the real dangerous terriories??????

      December 16, 2012 at 3:09 pm | Report abuse |
    • ezgoer89

      i think that would be a great idea. But, when your school tax bill increases 20% to pay for that, how will you (and many others) feel then?

      December 16, 2012 at 3:11 pm | Report abuse |
    • Nate

      Live in constant fear from these kind of events? Bullet proof glass in every school across the United States? How would that affect the psyche of the students? Don't rush to conclusions....we don't need to turn every school into a prison. These things happen, as sad as it is. Want to help these problems? Invest in mental health counseling, not gun control.

      December 16, 2012 at 3:15 pm | Report abuse |
  10. eclairer

    How refreshingly insightful and eloquent.

    December 16, 2012 at 2:51 pm | Report abuse |
  11. Denis Antoine

    The NRA and politicians supporting its insane policies have the blood of these children on their hands!!! Their policies allowed that Mom to buy that automatic weapon which was used to massacre those innocent children!!! Shame on them!!!

    December 16, 2012 at 2:53 pm | Report abuse |
  12. john

    I agree with Ms. Bittman. "Everyone feels violated".......that a psycho could blast his way into a quiet little school and commit mass murder of teachers and little children. I hope there is a very special circle in hell for the guy who did this.

    December 16, 2012 at 2:54 pm | Report abuse |
  13. Matt

    Well, The truth is coming out about the Clackamas mall shooting. They have found out an armed man with a legal concealed handgun stopped the shooting. One person with a handgun stopped what could have been another massacre. Makes me cringe to think one armed teacher could have saved all those children's lives.

    December 16, 2012 at 2:55 pm | Report abuse |
    • john

      Good point Matt! If one of these teachers had been trained and armed, someone might have been able to whack this dude before he did what he did.....

      December 16, 2012 at 2:59 pm | Report abuse |
    • ezgoer89

      completely untrue. He got off 60 shots and killed himself as 100 cops and SWAT teams entered the mall. Show a link to a story that proves your statement.

      December 16, 2012 at 3:14 pm | Report abuse |
    • ezgoer89

      Untrue, he was scared to shot an innocent person and hid in a store like everyone else. This is REAL life, not a VIDEO game. You gun people crack me up.

      December 16, 2012 at 3:17 pm | Report abuse |
    • AmFem101

      You're insane. Why would you make such a stupid statement, a complete and total lie, about the Clackamas mall shooter??? He shot himself!!! What makes it worse is that some moron replied and BELIEVED YOU!

      People are allowed to carry concealed weapons all over our country now. How often do we hear about intruders or others committing a crime being shot? Now ask yourself how many family members or friends have been shot and killed by accident, or during a domestic dispute?

      December 16, 2012 at 3:18 pm | Report abuse |
  14. MiserabLibral

    Protection of our schools is inadequate, it is only about the level of a US embassy.

    December 16, 2012 at 2:55 pm | Report abuse |
  15. Mike Chambers

    The underlying reason for the mass killings is not being talked about. It is the violent single shooter video games kids have had access to for the last decade. They role play for hundreds of hours killing people. Then those with a mental weakness or illness go on to the next level. Proof is these killers are dressed in black as in the video games. In the CT killings the mother pulled him out of school at about age 16. He had no social life and spent four years in video fantisy land. It is reported his mother hosted LAN parties for the gamers. If we want to reduce these horrible acts we need to censor violent video games and movies. However, I do not look for this to happen as Hollywood is making too much money off of them. That money has the blood of innocents on it.

    December 16, 2012 at 2:56 pm | Report abuse |
    • petilon

      We need to eliminate violence in video games. We also need to make it harder to kill people. Eliminate guns. There will still be murders. But it is not easy to kill 26 people with a knife. Guns make it too easy.

      December 16, 2012 at 3:14 pm | Report abuse |
    • Ccd

      Voice of reason and logic, sadly absent from most Americans who is busy protecting themselves from govenmint(sic)

      December 16, 2012 at 3:22 pm | Report abuse |
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