December 16th, 2012
10:27 PM ET

'These tragedies must end, and to end them we must change'

  • President heads list of dignitaries and local clergy members offering comfort to the people of Newtown, Connecticut
  • 20 children, six adults and the shooter are dead after shooting at Sandy Hook Elementary School on Friday morning
  • Police: Nancy Lanza, mother of gunman, died from multiple gunshot wounds
  • Gunman Adam Lanza had assault rifle magazines that held 30 bullets each, police said
  • Victims' names released Saturday; all of the slain children were either 6 or 7 years old
  • Complete coverage: Connecticut school shooting
  • Soledad O'Brien will be live from Newtown, Connecticut, with advice and insight from Deepak Chopra and from people who have been through other shootings. Watch Starting Point, live at 6 a.m. ET Monday.

[Update 10:27 p.m. ET] Christina Hassinger, 30, the daughter of slain Sandy Hook Elementary Principal Dawn Hochsprung, sent out this tweet after meeting with President Obama before the prayer vigil.


[Updated 9:39 p.m.] A long silence followed the conclusion of President Obama's remarks before the audience began to applaud. The president walked off the stage to return to the floor, but a woman stopped him, turned him around and sent him back up the stairs to the stage. He stopped and waved briefly to the still-applauding crowd before exiting backstage.

The Rev. Bob Weiss, pastor of Newtown's St. Rose of Lima Roman Catholic Church, then offered a prayer for the community's resilience in the times to come.

The Rev. Rob Morris, vicar of King Lutheran Church, gave a benediction before asking the audience to remain in the auditorium, comforting one another, at least until word came that the president had safely exited the school campus.

Read the full text of Obama's speech here.

[Updated at 9:13 p.m. ET] The president recalled a saying that having children is "like walking around with your heart outside your body" before pausing a moment to wipe a tear from his left eye.

"This job of keeping our children safe and teaching them well is something we can only do together," he told the hushed audience. "This is our first task: taking care of our children. It's our first job. If we don't get that right, we don't get anything right."

He then asked whether "we as a nation" are meeting that obligation.

"The answer is no, and we will have to change," he said.

Obama said this was the fourth mass shooting during his presidency, and there were countless other acts of gun violence on a smaller scale.

"We can't tolerate this anymore," he said. "These tragedies must end, and to end them we must change."

[Updated at 9:02 p.m. ET] Saying "we can't accept events like this as routine," President Barack Obama said Sunday he'll use whatever power he has to prevent more tragedies like what happened Friday in Newtown, Connecticut. "Surely we can do better than this," the president said.

[Updated at 8:52 p.m. ET] President Barack Obama is speaking to the crowd, which is remaining almost completely silent.

"We gather here in memory of 20 beautiful children and six remarkable adults," he said. "... I come to offer the love and prayers of a nation."

He assured the people of Newtown that the entire nation felt the loss.

"Our world too has been torn apart. All across this land of ours we have wept with you. We have pulled our children tight. ... Newtown, you are not alone."

[Updated at 8:37 p.m. ET] Connecticut Gov. Dannel Malloy spoke briefly, saying "We will get better," before introducing President Barack Obama.

[Updated at 8:30 p.m. ET] Newtown First Selectwoman Patricia Llodra said Friday's mass murder was "a defining moment," but it would not itself define Newtown. "We are defined by acts of courage, by love and by our continuing love for our children and families," she said.

[Updated at 8:25 p.m. ET] John Woodall, leader of the local Baha'i community, described "a burning grief" that accompanies the loss of a child, a loss that is "beyond the depth of human endurance." However, he said the sacred scripture of the Baha'i faith offers this admonishment: "Be thou not disconsolate. Do not languish. Do not sigh and weep. For agitatation and mourning affect the soul - the divine soul in the eternal realm."

Leo McIlrath, ecumenical chaplain of the Lutheran Home of Southbury, Connecticut, offered a prayer for the counselors, clergy and caregivers who are trying to comfort the bereaved.

[Updated at 8:16 p.m. ET] A young boy named Jason Graves sang a Muslim chant before Muadh Bhavnagarwala with Newtown's  Al Hedaya Islamic Center offered a one-minute homily. "Verily, with every difficulty there is ease," Bhavnagarwala said, quoting from the Quran in a quavering voice.

Jane Sibley, minister of visitation and spiritual growth, Newtown United Methodist Church, offered a prayer for first responders.

[Updated at 7:58 p.m. ET] Rabbi Shaul Praver, rabbi of Congregation Adathi in Newtown, sang the traditional Hebrew memorial prayer. The Rev. Mel Kawakami, senior minister of Newtown United Methodist Church, stood by his side, wearing a white surplice embroidered with colorful butterflies.

"There is no death, just transformation. May they rest in peace," Praver said.

Kawakami offered a prayer for the dead and the grieving, "for we are all a family as children of God," he said. "We embrace the grieving as our own. Bring us together in peace and amity."

[Updated at 7:49 p.m. ET] President Obama has entered the auditorium to brief, polite applause and quickly taken a seat on the main floor. The Rev. Matt Crebbin, senior minister of the Newtown Congregational Church, is opening the prayer vigil with welcoming remarks.

[Updated at 7:30 p.m. ET] Attendees at the prayer vigil rose to give first responders - paramedics, police officers, firefighters and others - a long standing ovation when they entered the auditorium.

[Updated at 7:07 p.m. ET] The start of the interfaith prayer vigil is delayed as President Obama continues to meet with first responders and families of victims behind closed doors. Sources at Newtown High School say 900 people are in the auditorium for the service, with 1,300 others in the gymnasium overflow.

[Updated at 6:15 p.m. ET] Connecticut's retiring U.S. Sen. Joe Lieberman, Sen. Richard Blumenthal, and Sen.-elect Christopher Murphy are circulating through the Newtown High School Auditorium and speaking with townsfolk assembling there for this evening's prayer vigil.

[Updated at 5:47 p.m. ET] President Barack Obama is meeting with the families of victims and with first responders before this evening's prayer vigil at Newtown High School.

[Updated at 4:03 p.m. ET] President Barack Obama has just landed in Connecticut where he will meet with family members and first responders.  Obama will then attend an interfaith vigil in Newtown, Connecticut.

[Updated at 3:47 p.m. ET] Adam Lanza was identified for the first time by Connecticut State Police as the gunman in Friday's shooting at Sandy Hook Elementary School.

Lt. J. Paul Vance said that Lanza died as a result of suicide using a handgun. Vance added that Lanza's mother, Nancy Lanza, died as a result of "multiple gunshot wounds" in her home.

Vance also told reporters that Adam Lanza used the Bushmaster AR-15 "assault-type weapon" most of the time at the school.

Lanza was armed with magazines that held 30 bullets each, according to Vance. He added that there were hundreds of bullets for the other weapons as well.

Vance told reporters that an additional weapon, a shotgun, was recovered from a vehicle Lanza parked outside of the school. The gunman also had a Glock 10mm and a Sig Sauer 9mm, multiple magazines and additional ammunition.

[Updated at 2:43 p.m. ET] Six-year-old Jessica Rekos was hoping to get cowgirl boots and a cowgirl hat for Christmas. Now her family is left mourning the loss of her young life.

Jessica's family sent us in a photo and statement that they wanted us to share with the world about her:

"Jessica loved everything about horses. She devoted her free time to watching horse movies, reading horse books, drawing horses, and writing stories about horses. We had promised her she could have her very own horse when she turned 10. She asked Santa for new cowgirl boots and a cowgirl hat. She was a creative, beautiful little girl who loved playing with her little brothers, Travis and Shane. She spent time writing in her journals, making up stories, and doing "research" on orca whales – one of her passions after seeing the movie Free Willy last year. She said her dream was to see a real orca. Thankfully her dream was realized in October when she went to SeaWorld.

Jessica was our first born. She started our family, and she was our rock. She had an answer for everything, she didn't miss a trick, and she outsmarted us every time. We called her our little CEO for the way she carefully thought out and planned everything. We can not imagine our life without her. We are mourning her loss, sharing our beautiful memories we have of her, and trying to help her brother Travis understand why he can't play with his best friend. We are devastated, and our hearts are with the other families who are grieving as we are."

You can read more about the rest of the victims in our interactive here, which will be updated as we get more photos and statements from family members.

[Updated at 2:13 p.m. ET] Lee Shull doesn’t want to feel helpless anymore.

That's why as a parent of a child at Sandy Hook Elementary school he gathered other Newtown, Connecticut, residents together on Sunday for a meeting to try to figure out what happened and how they can ensure it doesn't happen again.

The group was seeking to move forward a conversation about gun laws, mental health and the moral fabric of our country in the wake of another deadly shooting.

"We’re trying to get the word out to this country that we thought this was a safe community," Shull said. "This can happen anywhere. We need to start here and learn from this event."

Shull said his family is feeling the impact of the shooting personally. While he’s never met the gunman, his daughter was in a classroom where children were gunned down. Three other girls who shared a dance studio with his daughter are now dead.

[Updated at 1:31 p.m. ET] We've just learned that officials have given the "all-clear" at the St. Rose of Lima Roman Catholic Church in Newtown, Connecticut. The church had been evacuated due to an unspecified threat.

[Updated at 1:27 p.m. ET]  Authorities evacuated a Catholic church in Newtown, Connecticut, Sunday. It was unclear why the St. Rose of Lima Roman Catholic Church had been evacuated.

Witnesses said authorities told them to leave the church premises.  A column of armed police officers walked across the church property and entered a building next to the church's parking lot.

The church is less than two miles from Sandy Hook Elementary School.

[Updated at 1:03 p.m. ET] Lillian Bittman, a former chairwoman of the Newtown Board of Education, struggled to speak about the victims killed at Sandy Hook Elementary school.

She knew some of them directly, including Principal Dawn Lafferty Hochsprung, who she helped appoint.

“Everyone just feels violated,” she said of the town and the school she had been involved with for over 15 years. "It's unbelievable that this could happen to a little school that had so much joy in it."

Bittman said the school had done everything they thought they could to protect the children. And she hopes that out of tragedy, the country can find a way to move forward in a meaningful way.

"I need the country and the world to understand that out of this we have to bring good. This was an idyllic setting for children and now children, young children, have died," she told CNN's Don Lemon. "When Columbine happened, our school put in a buzzer system. But this keeps happening."

Bittman said that the families of those who were murdered are understandably "a mess" right now. She feels the same. The question now, she said, is whether we can put aside our differences as a country on mental health and gun control issues to make sure something as tragic as this doesn't happen again.

"We as a country have to use this to come together and look at all the solutions. What can the world do? Love each other and work together," she said. "Figure this out so no more six-year-olds die or have to watch their teacher die in their classroom."

[Updated at 12:12 p.m. ET] We are learning more details about the victims of the Sandy Hook Elementary School shooting.

Here's what the family of Olivia Rose Engel, 6, wanted to share about her:

"Olivia Rose Engel was a precocious and completely endearing six-year old. She loved school, and was very good at math and reading. She was creative, loved craft projects and art class, and loved participating in as many sports and activities as her mom Shannon could get her to- from tennis to swimming, ballet to soccer, Daisy Girl Scouts to musical theater, and her church’s CCD program, nothing was off limits for little girl who’s favorite colors were pink and purple. Olivia was always keen to take a spin on the lake and Sound on her dad or grandpa’s Whaler. She was a patient big sister to three-year old Brayden, lead Grace each evening at the dinner table, and was a six-year old with a lot to look forward to."

To learn more about the victims, please look at our interactive, which will be updated as we get more information.

[Updated at 12:12 p.m. ET] U.S. Sen. Richard Blumenthal said he has been touched by the "strength and resilience' of the community of Newtown in the wake of the school shooting.

"I don’t think I will ever forget the cries of grief and pain that I saw at that firehouse," Blumenthal, a Democrat representing Connecticut said, referring to the area where families gathered to learn if their loved ones were alive or dead.

[Updated at 12:02 p.m. ET] Authorities still have many witnesses, including children, that they will interview in the investigation of a Connecticut elementary school shooting, Connecticut State Police Lt. Paul Vance told reporters Sunday.

"Our people are talking with everybody slowly but surely, but methodically, too," he said. "This is something where people's hearts are broken, as we all well know. And we have to be sensitive."

[Updated at 11:54 a.m. ET] Authorities investigating the Connecticut elementary school shooting are analyzing evidence they've collected, including firearms, Connecticut State Police Lt. Paul Vance told reporters Sunday.

"We are tracing them historically to all the way back on the workbench when they were being assembled," he said.

[Updated at 11:50 a.m. ET] Inaccurate information about the Connecticut elementary school shooting is spreading on social media, and authorities could prosecute those responsible, Connecticut State Police Lt. Paul Vance told reporters Sunday.

Connecticut State Police Lt. Paul Vance addresses reporters on Sunday morning.

"Misinformation is being posted on social media sites," he said. "There has been misinformation from people posing as the shooter in this case, posing using other IDs. Mimicking this crime and crime scene and criminal activity that took place in this community. There's been some things in somewhat of a threatening manner. ... These issues are crimes. They will be investigated. ... Prosecution will take place when people who are perpetrating this information are identified."

[Updated at 11:47 a.m. ET] Democratic Sen. Dianne Feinstein of California said Sunday the president will soon have legislation "to lead on" in the gun control debate, announcing she will introduce a bill next month in the Senate to place a ban on assault weapons.

"We'll be prepared to go, and I hope the nation will really help," Feinstein said on NBC's "Meet the Press."

The senator said she'll introduce the bill when Congress reconvenes in January and the same legislation will also be proposed in the House of Representatives.

"We're crafting this one. It's being done with care. It'll be ready on the first day," she said, adding that she'll soon announce the House authors.

"It will ban the sale, the transfer, the importation, and the possession. Not retroactively, but prospectively. It will ban the same for big clips, drums or strips of more than 10 bullets," she said. "There will be a bill."

[Updated at 9:59 a.m. ET] The gunman used his weapon to force his way into the building, the state's governor told CNN Sunday.

"He penetrated the building by literally shooting an entrance into the building. That's what an assault weapon can do for you," Gov. Dan Malloy told CNN's Candy Crowley.

Gunman described as quiet, withdrawn

Malloy also said he was the one who broke the news to families that their loved ones had died at the school.

"It's a very difficult thing to do," he said. "The parents had been gathered for a number of hours, clinging to hope. ...And you can never be prepared for that, to tell 18-20 folks, or actually families, that their loved one would not be returning to them that day or in the future."

The Connecticut governor also discussed wanting tougher federal laws.

[Updated at 7:00 a.m. ET] Here's a quick look at the latest updates in the Connecticut elementary school shooting:

Relatives of the victims will meet with President Barack Obama on Sunday when the president visits.

All the victims died from gunshot wounds and were struck multiple times, said H. Wayne Carver II, Connecticut's chief medical examiner. Their deaths were classified as homicides.

All 20 of the slain children were either 6 or 7 years old.

Investigators have been combing "every crack and crevice" of the school and have found some "very good evidence" there and at suspect Adam Lanza's home, where his mother Nancy was killed.

The deadly shooting that shattered this quiet New England town also reignited the ongoing debate about gun laws in America.

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  1. Agorhosa

    From now onward I am not going to mourn for any gun-related deaths that happens to families who are pro guns and who are buying/selling guns. These stupid morons are the root cause of these violence in our country. Each one of them should have lost someone dear to them before they can lose the love for guns.

    My heart is broken for these innocent children, and I hate to say that I have no sympathy for the shooter or for his mom – period. I have no reason to have any sympathy for those who advocate gun ownership (living or dead). They should not produce children to be only victims of their own advocacy and to jeopardize the lives of their neighbors. They claim to be Christians. But where are the love they must show to their neighbors? By buying guns? By using guns? By selling guns? By being special advocates for gun ownership? Give me a break. More the guns more the crimes. No gun = no gun-related crime.

    December 17, 2012 at 4:17 am | Report abuse |
    • Agorhosa

      1611, King James Version of the Bible, Gospel of Matthew, 26:52
      Then Jesus said to him: “Return your sword to its place, for all those who take the sword will perish by the sword." Clearly we can see the proof, except there are way more to the proof – lives of the innocent ones have perished because of the cowards' evil intentions.

      December 17, 2012 at 4:31 am | Report abuse |
    • Ivan

      Agorhosa- your an idiot to say something as stupid as that. Are you that dense to think that ppl bring death upon themselves because of owning a weapon? You sound like a religious person, so fact check or you. Religion in its entirety has taken more lives than guns ever will, even today ppl still fight claiming the deaths of thousands as gods will. Regardless of how I feel about religion, doesn't it state " love thy neighbor" and " forgive your enemies"? Sounds like your just another wack job who enjoys claiming religion as your values but yet never actually applies it to there lifestyles. Good job, idiot.

      December 17, 2012 at 4:36 am | Report abuse |
    • Bryan


      I love that. We all have a religion of our own – be it an organized religion or be it a value. I guess Ivan did not understand you at all. Just forgive him, please. You are a peace-loving person and so you must have both the ability and willingness to forgive Ivan. I don't think that he is an American and so he may not know how gun lobbyists work in the US.

      December 17, 2012 at 5:19 am | Report abuse |
  2. Andrew

    Beloved, now? Fiery temptations, to try you, not shunned, as happened to you! strannogovy participate in the sufferings of his 1 Peter 4-13

    December 17, 2012 at 4:18 am | Report abuse |
    • Ivan

      By the word religion I have seen the lunacy of fanatics of every denomination be called the will of god. I have seen too much religion in the eyes of too many murderers. So stop using god as an excuse for anything. Pretty sure the only thing those victims families are wondering when it comes to god is where was he ? And why? But let me guess he works in mysterious ways, got it..

      December 17, 2012 at 4:54 am | Report abuse |
  3. keln

    Why not stop the gun manufacturers from making them?

    December 17, 2012 at 4:23 am | Report abuse |
  4. John

    I like what Obama said – he should act now and implement a strict gun law once and for all. Now is the time. When we cannot protect babies from getting shot by madmen out country is in the toilet. There is no need for military style rifles to be in the hands of the average person unless they want to kill people – it is about time this stops.

    December 17, 2012 at 6:21 am | Report abuse |
    • Larry Simpson

      even Obama can't take the guns

      December 17, 2012 at 6:24 am | Report abuse |
  5. Larry Simpson

    you can't legislate stupid or crazy no matter how you try! and you can't legislate morality!

    December 17, 2012 at 6:23 am | Report abuse |
  6. fiftyfive55

    It's the end of the world scenario,all the nut jobs are going to be popping up all over the place during the next two weeks.
    If the press hadn't sensationalized the end of the world predictions,this kind of stuff just might have happened.How else do we explain why a normal nice kid snaps like this ?

    December 17, 2012 at 6:25 am | Report abuse |
  7. John

    Other countries in the world look at the USA for allowing "our Freedoms" many of which destroy our society like we are crazy. Our current gun laws are responsible for people dying everyday – and what do we do – nothing make excuses for why it happens? What a joke. Maybe we should allow the NRA to continue to influence and set our gun policy – to me it is not working well. I hope Obama does something and bans the guns once and for all. When I hear about how guns are needed for protection it is a joke. Protect against what?

    December 17, 2012 at 6:28 am | Report abuse |
  8. reasons

    the kid was probably unconsciously (or consciously) upset at his father remarrying and his brother never spending time with him (or his father) – and he blamed it on his mom – who probably made the mistake of blaming it on him.
    or he took prozac or something similar (or both) – not to hard to see all that from what has been said so far. maybe his father's new wife is planning on new children soon – which would mean he would get even less from his father – and more emotional abuse from his mom and brother.

    December 17, 2012 at 6:29 am | Report abuse |
  9. Mary

    While we debate this issue two more officers have been shot and killed. Let's get these combat class weapons off of our streets.

    December 17, 2012 at 6:49 am | Report abuse |
    • fiftyfive55

      I'm afraid this is just the beginning.Without jobs and good futures,many good people are going to start losing it.No jobs,high taxes, slave countries pandered to by our leaders,what do people expect when hope is removed from society.

      December 17, 2012 at 6:59 am | Report abuse |
  10. Disgusting opportunist

    This president tonight used a childrens memorial service as a political springboard to push his gun control agenda. Absoutely disgusting. Liberals turned schools into no gun free free killing zones and have bllod on their hands. And the blood of millions of unborn babies they had aborted.

    December 17, 2012 at 7:03 am | Report abuse |
  11. Bailey

    The gun laws are not protecting innocent citizens. People say that this shows that we need guns in order to protect ourselves, but the availability of guns didn't stop any of these 20 children from being brutally murdered.

    December 17, 2012 at 7:30 am | Report abuse |
  12. jadedragonwolf

    If you honestly think gun control is going to end things like this think again. This is not the first school killing nor will it be the last. Recently in china a man wielding a knife entered a school harming over 20 children. IN the early 20th cent a man rolled a car into a school loaded with explosives. Do you think keeping someone from a gun will prevent them from harming others? Do you think keeping guns from honest people, will keep them out of the bad guys hands? If you want a gun, you can get one whether it's legal or not. Good luck with this gun control and good bye to freedom of speech next.

    December 17, 2012 at 7:55 am | Report abuse |
    • jackson

      Nope... they won't ....

      He could have used $8.00 worth of gasoline to do the same thing.

      Guns have been around a lot longer than school shootings

      Lax gun laws are not the problem.

      Unfortunately, over zealous anti- gun extremest will use this to advance their agenda

      Its a social problem. Why these kids who kill feel like outcasts....


      December 17, 2012 at 9:45 am | Report abuse |
  13. fiftyfive55

    With the constant bombardment of end of the world news,I'm surpised there isnt more of these tragedies occurring.Of course we are getting closer everyday.The nuts will be crawling out of the wood work over the next week or so,watch.

    December 17, 2012 at 8:06 am | Report abuse |
    • scaredeh

      nut jobs eh
      like you perhaps???
      how scared are you?

      December 17, 2012 at 8:30 am | Report abuse |
    • fiftyfive55

      @scaredeh-I'm ready,are you ?

      December 17, 2012 at 8:43 am | Report abuse |
    • sure

      i'm ready to watch and pray as needed ...
      that's what the mayans are doing by the way

      December 17, 2012 at 12:18 pm | Report abuse |
  14. fiftyfive55

    This is a mental health issue if ever there was one,a gun was only a tool used but this is still a mental health issue and that is how this needs to be addressed.

    December 17, 2012 at 8:11 am | Report abuse |
    • Regina

      Thank you for recognizing the problem. If only more people would. Mental illness is out of control in this country. I hope that we can move forward with treatment.

      December 17, 2012 at 8:43 am | Report abuse |
    • mak

      Human life is precious...especially children..Whether they are Americans or Afghanis deep condolences for the children who sacrificed for selfish motives.

      Times of india : In March, after a loony bunch of American marines descended on a Afghan village at mid-night and shot dead men, women and children - all sleeping in their poor houses after a day’s of hard work, there was no outrage in America, no candle-light vigils, no flowers and no trauma. Nobody felt bad for the Afghan children shot in the head while dreaming, probably smiling in their sleep, dying in the embrace of their mothers.

      December 17, 2012 at 9:26 am | Report abuse |
    • jackson

      Absolutely right... guns ha w been around for 150yrs. These senseless shootings are new phenomenon ...

      They are not the result if lax hun laws.......

      Mainstream liberalism is part of the problem .. socio-cultural changes are also...

      So do we ban violent video games?

      Do we ban explicit lyrics in rap music.?

      Should we continue to" mainstream" children with special needs in education? .... so their differences stand out even more?


      He could have killed just as many children with $8.00 worth if gasoline.

      December 17, 2012 at 9:32 am | Report abuse |
  15. Skeptimist

    To be fair and balanced, we report the following response from the firearms industry:
    "As confirmed on Friday, December 14, 2012, our products work as advertised."

    December 17, 2012 at 8:12 am | Report abuse |
    • Regina

      Have you taken your psych meds today?

      December 17, 2012 at 8:48 am | Report abuse |
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